Benjamin Andrew James

Also known as "Ben"

28 November 19796 April 2024

Funeral service held at Dil's Funeral Services

Tributes

The most warmest of hearts. The most kindest of souls. My heart will be forever broken. To have been so lucky to be your friend is an understatement. The time we spent together in New Zealand is the most precious of memories I have from my time there. We had so many adventures you and I. Your painting of Piha you drew me depicting the on coming storm we seen is a most cherished possession of mine. As you know (I sent you the pic) it hangs so proudly in my living room. How can I not just message or call you Ben. I miss you brother. When my spirit is ready to fly, I know you will be there, ready with that big hug for me. Love you with all my heart. Jeremy, Tristan, Danny all your loving family and of course Ben's amazing friends. My thoughts are with you all. I send love from Ireland and I am so sorry I cannot be there to pay my respects in person. I will never forget you Brother. May you rest in peace.

Colm Moss

Heartfelt condolences to your family. I'll always remember those E-Block days and beyond and what Ben brought to the group. He will be sorely missed.

Jonathan Campbell

Oh benji (fake hubby) you were are an will always be a becom of light ...your heart soul an just genuine love for everyone everything was radiating...ill never forget the times we shared doll an ill think of you fondly for the rest of my life... love you endlessly xoxox

Crystal zamira

All our love and thoughts to you Tristan, your family and all Ben's friends who are hurting at this time. I remember Ben's support during the Battle Circus years in the mid-late 2000s. He was a lovely guy, with oodles of talent. Sorry I can't be there today with you, but we're there in spirit. Much love. James, Bek, Gabe and Sasha

James Whitlock

Dear Jem, Jess Tris and Danny and families, Robert and I are thinking of you all and of course dear Ben. He will be missed by us all. We will be with you virtually from the USA. Much love Margi Robert and families.

Robert Bogers (NZ) & Margi Ward

Our thoughts are with Ben's family and all his precious friends as you farewell him. He was a dearly loved mate and confidant to our daughter, Tess, and will be sorely missed by her and by us. A kind, creative, gentle soul who cared deeply for others - sometimes maybe at his own emotional expense. We hope he knew how well loved he was and that he is at peace. Nga mihi.

Ruth & Richard
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