Today we all remember a true gentleman. I for one, have never met somebody that better fit that title. I so wish I could be there with you all today (and late into the evening, at the party that will undoubtedly eventuate!) there are just so many stories about this Marvellous man and he deserves a send-off to remember! However, I’ll be on a long-haul flight thinking of you on my way to the Falkland Islands. Jim was a such a great man. Never a bad work spoken and so loyal to his many friends. I met Jim through the cruising club and after “hitting it off” so to speak we spent many great times together, particularly so through our joint passion of fly fishing. We had many wonderful trips over the years, including fishing his beloved Tongariro river, near Taupo. Jim’s many stories would always capture a crowd at the TALTAC Fishing club. During the evening cocktail sessions around kitchen tables, the stories were remarkable, and we all got a taste of the depth of Jim’s life and amazing adventures lived. Stories always told with great detail and passion. Jim was always a gentleman, loyal, kind, funny and a social man. He adored his kids and grandchildren and spoke so proudly of them all. But in Jill was his deepest love, and he showed it to her every day. Jim loved his “child bride” as he would say. Or “she who must be obeyed”. The stories of their European party train trips, heading on ski adventures were so fantastic. I know she will be waiting for her true love, ready for their souls to reunite. I have my flyfishing gear with me on this far away trip, and with me a fly that Jim tied, which was his own proud “secret sauce”. I’m looking forward to tying on “Jim’s fly” and shedding a few more tears as we fish together one more time. Goodbye my dear friend. I’m so blessed to have spent so many wonderful times with you. Your life was one lived as good as any man could hope for. “Tight lines” up there in our maker’s paradise. Love always Bruce

I first met Jim on Christmas Day so many years ago, a stranger about to become an in-law of sorts, such a sociable guest and welcome extension to the family. What an extraordinary life, his, that was, go well xx

I had the pleasure of meeting Jim and Jill when Rosario introduced me. It was a privilege for me to serve as their housekeeper until Rosario returned from overseas. This relationship led to a lifelong friendship. The Friday gatherings became our informal coffee and catch-up time. Jim observed my journey in life and always ensured that I felt welcomed. He was always keen to listen to the next chapter in my life as I transitioned through it. I am immensely grateful for his presence at our wedding. My husband and Jim shared many conversations about their Navy experience. He will forever be cherished.

Although I did not know Jim well personally, I am grateful for the profound and lasting influence that Jim and Jill had on my sister’s life. The love, respect and honour which they displayed enriched the lives of those around them and will be sorely missed. Rest in eternal peace.

Jim stepped onto the boat one afternoon citing safety and a list of other issues, turns out it was his funny sense of humour and just a welcome to Nelson. From that day I had respect for him. Always the gentleman, a wealth of knowledge, kind and generous of his time. Functions at TBCC always supported by him and Jill. You will be remembered by so many your contribution. I will raise a glass of wine , red of course, in your memory tonight. Farewell Jim.

Jim and I were fellow students at the RN engineering college. Our studies were mostly driving ancient motors and drinking quantities of draughty beer, essential prerequisites to becoming naval engineers. Jim was a. good friend and we had many adventures together. Janey joins in love

Amanda and Tim my sincere condolences and sorry I can’t be with you tomorrow. Jim and Jill were such a lovely couple and I cherish the memories we shared together. I am so happy I managed to have dinner with Jim when I was in Nelson a few weeks ago. Jim you can now be beside your beloved Jill again. Lady Jayne x

Sad to hear the passing of Jim Mills a true gentleman and a fine human being. Over the years we have (Sue and I - Sue Passed in 2017) enjoyed conversation at the club with Jim and his lovely, departed wife Jill. A sad day for family and friends please accept my condolences. May Jim join his beloved Jill and float amongst the stars gently pushed by the solar winds. Warwick Kermeen.