Rest in love Debbie! You were the sweetest, most kindest, honest, loyal, trustworthy and LOVING lady I’d ever had the privilege of meeting. Thank you for accepting me and finding it in your heart to love me the way you loved everyone else. Thank you for the warm memories left behind, I shall cherish them dearly. You really were such a light in everyone’s lives, always finding a way to put a smile on everyone’s faces. From the very first time I met you, you have always been the most kindhearted lady. I admired you strongly, and will carry with me all of the advice you shared with me during our time together.

Such a beautiful send off for a precious soul Fly safe Debs you were an inspiration to us all and will be sorely missed To Kurt, Amber and Jade, my thoughts and prayers are with you always x

Beautiful memories

Debs, I followed your travels over the last few weeks, and revelled in your joy. Your voice filled with wonder and delight as you explored the beauty of Croatia and Italy. Your voice sounding so much like Aunty Frankie's. I remember sitting on the rocks at Shelly Beach talking with you as you prepared to leave South Africa and join Kurt in NZ. It seems like yesterday. You were excited about the new adventures and life in NZ. You lived in a place whose beauty reflects the beauty of your heart. You touched so many lives and the world is indeed a sadder place without you in it. Do me a favour up there in heaven... give all of our crazy lovely family members a big old hug from me. You lived your dash to the full! Rest softly beautiful lady.

Amber, Jade, and Kurt you broke my heart with your words, Debbie would be so proud. Love you all so much. Debbie was the sun, burning so bright wrapping us all in a blanket of warmth.

To a sweet sister-in-law , super Mum, long time freind and all round amazing human. I will miss you Deb. Know that we will always be here for your precious girls. Thank you for all the love , especially for our wee Nelson. You are so special to us and will be remembered fondly for love you have always showed our boys and us all as a family. Love you Deb - will always remember you for your generosity , love and you unbelievably instant organisation skills ! Love you.

You will be missed Debbie! Your big warm smile and compassion for others were you in essence. Our heartfelt condolences for all who loved you dearly. Pieter & Lia Pauley

My dearest Riley I don’t really know how to do this, write a tribute from me to you other than to write a letter to you, one you will never have the chance to read. Deb, my world has been rocked, shaken, turned upside down. I am going through the whole gamut of human emotions, trying so desperately to understand, but knowing I more than likely may never. How do I even begin to say goodbye to you? You have been so very special to me – my very dear, and much loved friend for 39 years. You have been my rock when I needed you, but also my soft place to fall. We have shared so many of life’s trials and tribulations, had so much fun and laughter. I have so many stories that I wish I could be re-living with you right now. We would be crying with laughter at some of the antics. I wish I could turn back time, have that one more conversation with you, and tell you how special you are to me and so many other people. My heart is literally aching, for Jade, Amber and Kurt, but it’s also aching for you and for me, for everything you never got to say and do. “If you would indeed behold the spirit of death, open your heart wide unto the body of life. For life and death are one, even as the river and the sea are one.” “Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing. And when you have reached the mountaintop, then you shall begin to climb. And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then you shall truly dance” Khalil Gibran ‘The Prophet’ May you be at peace, my friend. Fly free, my Riley, fly free. I love you, always and forever. Heidi

Debbie was a truly incredible woman! We feel so honored to have met the whole family and friends when we were traveling in our van through NZ back in 2018. Debbie gave us a home and didn't expect anything in return. She will be missed so much. Our thoughts are with you Amber, Jade and Kurt. We send you lots of love and strength ❤️

Jade, Amber, Kurt & family. May the memories of Debbie help you find peace and comfort. We are deeply sorry to hear about your loss. Thinking of you. Christo & Priscilla

Dear Kurt, Jade and Amber Our hearts goes out to you all during this incredibly difficult time. We are so sorry for the loss of Debbie. She was an amazing person, and her passing leaves a huge void in our lives. I can only imagine the pain and grief you must be feeling, but please know that we are here for you, and we want to support you in any way we can. Whether its just being a listening ear, don't hesitate to reach out. Please take care of yourselves during this difficult time. You're not alone in your grief, and we are here to support you every step of the way. With love and deepest condolences, Beryl, Ryan, Jason and Bronwin