Harmen, you and Sheryl have always been very dear good friends since the very early days. We know words can't take away the enormous loss and hurt you are feeling. Across the many miles know we care and will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. May you find a bit of comfort in knowing that Sheryl is at rest now. She will be forever missed and always in our hearts. Lots of love and hugs!!

Dear Harmen We were shocked and saddened to hear about Sheryl's passing. We remember the beautiful orchids that Sheryl grew and which had pride of place in different functions and weddings we held over the years. May the pain of your loss be eased by the many cherished memories of your times together. Our thoughts and deepest sympathies are with you at this most difficult time.

Dear Harman I am so, so sorry to hear about Sheryl's death. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling. A life long partner, with so many years of memories no longer by your side. My heartfelt sympathy to you. Michelle

Kind caring thoughtful, optimistic the glass was always half full. If there was a need Sheryl would give you half. A person with values, standards. There was a line between right and wrong. Sheryl held that line. A blind cat. A smelly cactus flower. Absolutely the best knitted garments in the world !! Sheryl could knitt and read a book at the same time. Harmen and Sheryl built a boat. A good analogy for their life. It wasn't easy at times it was very hard. They supported each other saw it through and had many happy hours in that boat. Sheryl was revolutionary. She wanted to be a mechanic. She applied for an apprenticeship using only her initials. Only to be told, you're a girl you can't be a mechanic. She was a rebel. She drove for years, but never got a licence. We would talk for hours on the phone. The conversation never stopped, it would get late and we'd have to hang up. Everyone who spent time with Sheryl was enriched by the experience. A truly wonderful person. When I think of her I smile. Only happy memories. Sheryl and Harmen were together for fifty years they took care of each other and allowed each other to be themselves. They both deserved that. Thank you Harmen for taking care of my big sister. Sheryl is at peace now. For all of us who love her. She will be with us always. Wayne.

My condolences, Harmen, on the sudden loss of Sheryl. We have good memories of visiting with you and Sheryl - both at your orchid property, at Mother & John’s place, and out in Te Puke, whenever we came back to New Zealand. The loss of your soulmate is very, very sad. It will weigh heavy for you. Given time, your emotions will adjust, but I do understand how loss continues to be with you. Mourn Sheryl’s passing - it was far too soon - but smile as you savour the memories. They will comfort you always. My thought are with you, family members, and friends. Respectfully, Sandra

Sheryl you touched our lives and will stay in our hearts forever. Our deepest sympathy to you Harmen. ❤️