I only heard the sad news today. We knew her as Aunty Pam as she was a wonderful friend of my parents the late Noeleen and Albert Bernhard (Putāruru). Pam was also a dear friend of Nel Caldwell (née Bernhard) Pam was a wonderful, kind and caring lady who will be greatly missed. RIP

To a selfless lady Pam, We shared a lot together Pam, you were someone who could always be relied upon to be discreet and completely trustworthy. Thank you for your friendship and dedication Pam. Rest in Peace your work is done. Gael

Dear Cousin Pam It's been an amazing journey, I’m very thankful to have been a part of your family & relieved to know you had such a strong hope and belief in God. Love Lee-Anne May God Bless you

Aunty Pam, May you rest in peace❤️ Lily x

RIP Pam, you will always be a legend and I will miss you so much. The work you have done for Veterans is immeasurable and you will always be remembered for that. Unfortunatly I was unable to attend today and I hope Graham will pass on my apologies. Love you to bits.

Caring for us so personally and expertly, when we were so much in need, recovering from surgery arising from being smashed, needing dust off. And later back in NZ

My sincere condolences for your loss. Pam was with my brother in the hospital after he was killed in action and the subsequent return of his body by chopper to the hospital. I attended a reunion at Waiouru several years ago and sat with her at the Dining In. She was a very courageous lovely lady and a huge loss. She will be remembered by many. As I am currently in hospital, I am not able to attend the service. RIP. Wayne Williams LT RNZN RTD Wayne

E te tuahine e Pam nga mihi nui mo o mahi tiaki to whanau Victoa 4 I te mura o te ahi I Vietnam. Kua Tae atu koe ki a ratou ma. Haere e te tuahine ki te huihuitanga o te kahurangi. Moe mai I roto o te Ariki

Dearest Aunty Pam Thank you for showing me how it's done Me te aroha Helen x

Moe mai ra Auntie Pam i to moenga roa. I will always treasure our conversations and your support throughout my service in the Army. You were always there for our whanau and a great sounding board for all the Veterans who you've supported and guided throughout the years. The world has lost a true inspiration and an amazing woman. We will miss you dearly and wish I could've been there to say my final farewell in person but this will have to do. Auntie Pam you have attended your last parade and have served this country with honour and dignity your job is now done. Go now to your eternal rest where your family, loved ones, and brothers and sisters in Arms wait receive you on that parade ground in the sky. For the last time "FALL OUT" With all my love and tears in my eyes as I write this. Farewell for now Auntie Pam, till we meet again. Skippy Albert, daughter of Eric and Waina Albert and proud descendant of V4 Company.