Patrick William Joseph Hayden

25 March 19417 October 2024

Funeral service held at St. Mary's Catholic Church, Northcote

Tributes

Wonderful man a loving husband and father. We used to debate financial stuff when the family was in Napier. I see in the photos unc Ronnie --and I remembered when dawn n pat built (? harold holt?) we all worked on the house . Unc des and Ronnie were the builders -me and phil n david and probly unc johnny nd dad and unc ray and bronky were all there . As kids we did the barrow work for the concrete - and I remember dwangs ? Pat told me when flybuys was starting up-(somehow he was aware of them Ive forgotton)- it would add ??0.2% to inflation? as obviously nothings free.. So if you didnt get flybuys your subsidizing others because you pay more for everything .. its was a complex discussion. I remember vividly- we were at dians n rosses for something -- I had long hair as did most of us in the rocknroll era- somehow I still did-- he said to me you look like jesus. HE is a great guy we all loved him as family and we all know the familys huge issues -yet neither Patrick Nor Aunty Dawn complained. God bless you Patrick ... God bless all .

Ronal woods

A great service for Uncle Pat today...our thoughts are with you all Aunty Dawn , Mark, Brendon and all the family...sorry we can't be with you all today and thank you so much for the live link to Pats service ...take care of yourselves and each other ...bye for now. Craig ,Kay and Todd.

Craig Single

So sorry for the loss once again thinking of you on this tough day

Matt and Greece

Thoughts are with you all today as you say your final goodbyes. I have so many wonderful memories from Pirimai days that I treasure. A great man, with patience and love. You will all miss him dearly ❤️

Diane Jines

A lovely tribute to Patrick. I am sorry I couldn't be there today. Thinking of you all at this very sad time. Kindest Regards, Monica.

Monica McKinley (Hayden)

Lovely service for Uncle Pat. Sorry couldn't be there in person today.My oldest daughter Imogen due at any stage with my first grandchild My thoughts are with you Aunty Dawn/ Mark/ Brendon and extended families. Good Bloke my Uncle Pat DS

Dean Single

Thinking of you all today sending hugs, love and condolences. I could not be there in person due to work commitments, but I was with you watching the live service for Uncle Pat. Lovely service for a lovely man. Rest in peace Uncle Pat you will be missed by all. xx

Julie Single

Deepest sympathies Mark and family.

Ken Hix

On behalf of my mum and late dad, thank you Pat for being such a wonderful neighbour to the Stott family across the road for so many, many years. Thinking of you Dawn, Mark and Brendan and the rest of the Hayden family. Rest in peace Pat

Kevin Stott

Dawn, Mark, Peri and Henry.Sorry can't be there with you but will be there in spirit. Patrick was a wonderful husband, father and Grandfather. Sadly missed. I have lovely memories of our early days in Pirimai.

Kay Proud

Farewell Uncle Pat. Definitely a gentleman amongst gentlemen. A wonderful husband, father, grandfather and cherished uncle. Your time has come and you will forever hold a place in my heart. Very fond memories. Love you always. Yesterday, another light went out on earth, but you've left a legacy to carry that light on, in the hearts of the people you loved. Rest in peace. It was an honour to have had you in my life. . Love you always. In my heart

Denise

So sorry we cannot be with you but will be thinking of you and live streaming. Such a wonderful man our Uncle Pat you were such a great husband, father, uncle, cousin, and grandad. A man who was admired by many and touched the hearts of the family Mark you have been amazing with all you have done to support your Mum and Dad even with what has been going on in your life Loved you Uncle Pat RIP Gael, Chris, Cherry, Pat

Gael Turner

Heart felt sadness at losing my wonderful brother. Love Ann

Ann Weston
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