John Tresidder Howey

11 February 194222 October 2024

HOWEY, John Tresidder. Born February 11, 1942. Passed away on October 22, 2024, peacefully at home. John was a loving husband, Father, grandfather, brother and friend. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him. A service will be held at the North Harbour Chapel of Dil's Funeral Services, 185 Schnapper Rock Road, Albany, on Friday 1 November at 10:30a.m., followed by private cremation.

Funeral service held at Dil's Funeral Services

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Some people enter our lives and become family, not by birth or blood, but through the love and kindness they share. John was that person for me. Being a host dad wasn’t just a role for him—it was part of who he was. When I first entered his home, he welcomed me as though I were one of his own. One of my fondest memories is of John teaching me to drive. Those lessons were more than just driving; he shared his time, his trust, and his stories. On countless drives, he’d sit beside me, sharing pieces of his life while I learned to navigate the road. I still don’t know how he trusted me behind the wheel, but he did, with a calm patience that put me at ease. He even took me to different terrains and winding roads, teaching me to handle every curve. In every mile, he taught me more than driving; he showed me courage, resilience, and the power of laughter, even when the road got tough. John had a gift for kindness that went beyond words. He brightened each day just by being himself and showed me that life isn’t meant to be taken too seriously. He taught me to face each day with joy, resilience, and compassion, even in the smallest moments. He truly believed in making others feel like they belonged, and his warmth turned his home into a safe haven—a home away from home. Though he is no longer here, John’s influence lives on in me. I see him in my own actions, in how I choose kindness and carry the values he instilled in me. He shaped the person I am today, and I am forever grateful. His presence in my life was a gift, one I will carry forward and treasure always. Thank you, John, for teaching me to live with kindness, courage, and joy. Rather than feeling sadness in our farewell, I will cherish and celebrate the time I was fortunate enough to share with you. You’ll always be part of who I am, and I’ll carry your memory forward with a grateful heart.

Sally Kim
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