Ms Tiaho Mary Pillot

Also known as "Mary"

1 November 19569 November 2024

PILLOT, Tiaho Mary (nee Patena). 
Passed away peacefully at home in Tauranga on
Saturday 9 November surrounded by family and friends, after a long battle with
cancer. 
Dearly loved daughter of the late Te Taawhi and Raua Mary Patena,
irreplaceable partner of Kerry, adored mother of Claudio and Brandon, cherished
youngest sister of Pateriki (Patrick), Muriel, Maata (Merle), Phyllis and Mahinui
(Manu) and the late Whetumarama (Budge), Te Atamira (Ruth), Kepa and Paraone
(Brownie) and loved auntie of many nieces and nephews. Mary was known to all as
Bub.
Special thanks to the staff of Otumoetai Doctors, Waipuna Hospice and Visionwest
Home Healthcare.
Tiaho’s life will be celebrated at 12:30 pm on Saturday 16 Nov at Simply
Funerals Chapel, 20 Whiore Ave, Tauriko, Tauranga. 
In lieu of flowers, donations to the Waipuna Hospice would be appreciated.
Okioki ki te rangi taku anahera iti.

Notice by Simply Funerals

Funeral service held at Simply Funerals - Tauranga

Tributes

In Loving Memory of Mary Dearest Mary, You were not just a friend; you were a true blessing in my life. Your kindness, warmth, and unwavering support have left an indelible mark on me. Some of my happiest memories are of the Christmases we shared, surrounded by love, laughter, and the magic of the holidays. Your home was a place where everyone felt welcome, and your generous spirit made every gathering special. When I lost Leon, your support meant more to me than words could ever express. You were a steady presence during one of the hardest times of my life, offering comfort and understanding in a way that only you could. I will always remember your strength, your gentle wisdom, and the way you could make everyone around you feel valued and cherished. Though you are no longer with us, the love and light you brought into this world will continue to shine through the countless lives you touched. Rest peacefully, dear Mary. You will always be missed but never forgotten. With love and gratitude, Margie

Margie Fitzpatrick

Beautiful celebration of Aunty Tiaho's life - thank you for sharing. We all loved watching it from here in Sydney - but of course, wish we were there. Aunty Tiaho was on speed dial when Dad was still here - he would call her almost every day. Mum was the oldest daughter and she always had a soft spot for her baby sister and the feeling I'm sure was mutual. Beautiful words Uncle Kerry, Brandon, Claudio and Vince. Take care and hopefully we can catch up on our next visit back to NZ.

Geoff, Helen, Amelie & Sophia Florian

Thankyou Kerry I really enjoyed your sharing about everything. Much love to you and Claudio and Brandon. I think that love for nature and animals run in our blood ♥️

Kataraina

Aunty Tiaho .I Love You . heartfelt love goes out to Uncle Kerry Claudio Brandon .. Love has no measure in time it lives on for ever.. till we meet again .. we will rejoice in the beautiful memories given to us all.. 🕊️❤️🌹

Moana

Thinking of you Kerry Claudio and Raniera Sori Im not able to share our beloved sister Tiahos' LIFE MEMS with you today but, that doesn't mean I love you less..always here for you...Rest in eternal ❤️ Bub kia tau te rangimarie kia a koe me on a whanau ✌️Peace be with you and your family Bub. MTWAM ae🙏🫂❤️✅ from our Ormsby whare 🏡 in Turangi 2u with ❤️

Merle Maata ORMSBY

My heart is hurting but I’m happy you not in pain I hope you my bestie you are in my heart forever and l will never forget you 💯🥰♥️🙏

Laxmi Dunster

I’m willing to make sure my bestie sister rests in peace so proud of her strength devotion to her Kerry and her awesome sons my heart is with the three of you all my darling friend sister always have your heart with you forever 💯♥️🥰🙏🙏🙏

Laxmi Dunster
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