Also known as "Terry"
29 July 1948 – 8 November 2024
Also known as "Terry"
29 July 1948 – 8 November 2024
HEESE, Terrence Raymond:
Major, retired Salvation Army Officer was Promoted to Glory on 8th November 2024 aged 76.
Dearly loved husband of Glenys. Loved Dad and father-in-law of Delwyn & Drew Bennett, and Rhondda & Greg Middleton. Special Poppa of Jackson, Montana, Leo, Charlie, Katie, Henry, Billy, and Holly. Loved brother and brother-in-law of Raewyn & Terry Hammond, Evan Heese, Rosie, and Tony Vient.
Terry loved to be with people and right to the end continued his involvement in supporting the Recovery Church. He will be remembered for his story telling, his love of gardening and would have been overjoyed to see the wonderful blooming garden Glenys arrived home to on Saturday. Terry and Glenys’ little dog Annie was a very loyal friend to Terry and will miss him.
In preference to flowers, please consider a donation to the Salvation Army Community Ministries which may be left at the service or via bank account number: 02-0708-0224982-00
Messages to the Heese Family may be left here on Terry’s tribute page.
A service to celebrate Terry’s life will be held at Eagars Te Henui Chapel, 174 Lemon Street, New Plymouth on Friday 15 November 2024 at 2pm.
For those unable to attend, Terry’s funeral will be livestreamed here on his tribute page.

Funeral service held at Eagars Te Henui Chapel
Our prayers are with you all as you come to terms with the loss of Terry. Such a nice guy and good friend. Looking back we were surprised at how often our paths crossed over the decades of Officership. Glenys, Delwyn, and Rhonda, may God keep you in his arms and may you feel His comfort and warmth.
Although I had known of Glenys and Terry my whole life, I got to know them better whilst a cadet in the SA Training College, where Terry was on staff. While there, my young daughter and I were unexpectedly thrown into a trauma where I was left with no idea of what to do next. Terry and Glenys in their quiet gentle way, prayed loved and guided me through what was a very difficult time for my daughter and I. Thank you so much for making that time a little more bearable. Love to Glenys and family as you now navigate a new normal. Jackie Plato (Anderson)
Terry’s kindness has left a lasting impact on my life. He and Glenys have been friends with my parents, Neil and Margaret Anderson, for a long time, since their leadership at Glenfield while I was living in London. My connection with them grew after my marriage, as they offered support and prayer following a miscarriage, and then later dedicating my twins at Glenfield Salvation Army. Terry’s warmth, compassion, and kindness will always be remembered. Our condolences to Glenys and the family.
Terry was a wonderful man, much love to all his family and friends.
I remember Terry and Glenys as young folk at Christchurch City. My sincere sympathy to the family in your sad loss. Safe in the arms of Jesus. May God's loving arms surround you all with love and compassion. The service was a beautiful tribute to a life well lived for God.
Hello Glenys. I have just watched the funeral service for Terry on livestream. Thanks to you and Terry for the help and support over the years. I was thinking of our two and a half years at high school Glenys and Terry for Scott and Nadine’s wedding 11 years ago on a few days. God bless you Lynnette Hayden
My thoughts and prayers are with you Glenys along with your family.Terry was a wonderful man,very encouraging and caring.I am in Wellington today so will join you online for the service.God bless you all.
Dear Glenys, Delwyn and Rhondda and families. My most sincere condolences to you all at this sad time. I know what it is like to lose your husband and father after such a long time. The grief does not go away. It is always with you. I know your faith in God will help you through this hard time. This is a small verse that has helped me "Grief never ends, But it changes, it's a passage. Not a place to stay. Grief is not a sign of weakness, Nor a lack of faith.... It's is the price of love" My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Lots of love. Connie
Deepest sympathy to you all in the passing of Terry. Raewyn & Ian
I was saddened to read of the passing of Terence. Terry, as I knew him then, was a close mate of mine in 5C at Shirley Boys’ High in 1964. He was a chirpy chap with whom I shared a similar odd sense of humour and a Christian background. Over the years I’ve been pleased to note his progress through the church ranks. My thoughts are with Glenys and his family, who will very much miss such a warm and caring person. Stephen D Walsh, Wellington.
We grieve with you Glenys and family. We appreciate the love you have both given to us and others during our time at New Plymouth Corp. You both are such a blessing. Terry was a big seed planter in the recovery church and I'm grateful for the wisdom he passed along to us. Terry will be very missed!
Terry and Glenys introduced my Mum to the Lord when she needed him most. They have been the most unwavering friends to my family and have been surrogate parents to me. Terry’s joy of life and love of God literally shone from within him. It breaks my heart that he has gone. I love you with all my heart Glenys and I am with you in spirit today. Xxx
I will never forget the hospitality shown to me by the Heese family, in Porirua back in the late 70s, early 80s. It was second to none. I can still remember the Omelettes (meal in a pan!) Thank you for all you have done for both me and my family over the years, and the occasional catch ups felt like not much time had passed since the last! Your deep faith and allowing the love of God to work through you has touched many. Raewyn (Smith/Daurua)
Condolences to Glenys and family I was saddened to hear of Terrys passing I only met Terry in 2021, when our half sister Rosey was in her final stages of her illness. Terry was a lovely man, who will be greatly missed by all who knew him Alison
Dear Glenys & family - I was so shocked & saddened to read of Terry’s death. An amazing man with such a love for God and his family and lots of great stories. Loved the time I played at the Joy Hour he led each month. He loved people and made everyone feel special. Much love to you Glenys Psalm 16:11 You have made known to me the path of life: you will fill me with joy in your presence Lyn ❤️
Our thoughts and prayers for you and your family Glenys at this sad time for you all. We trust that the time you spend together on Friday will be of celebration of Terry's life and there will be many happy memories amongst the tears. Janet and Rowen At the same time on Friday we will finally be interring Mum (PTG June 2023) and Dad(PTG MARCH 2021)ashes here in Wellington.
Dear Glenys, we have fond memories of you & Terry at St. Albans & remember one Sunday at a combined service at St. Matthews when David f Terry walked down the aisle with D wearing Terry,s hat & Terry wearing D’s stole.! Sadly St. Matthews was demolished after the earthquakes. David is quite unwell with heart failure. We get to Church (St. paul’s” ) when we can. Hope you are well God bless & love. ,Keren.
Dear Glenys, What memories I have of my friendship with you and Terry and the support and help you gave me so lovingly and willingly during your time at St Albans back in the 80’s. I will always be thankful. I was a new Christian and struggling to recover from a breakdown. Your input was huge. I am now doing well and still going strong! Sending love from Marg & I, thinking of you, condolences to you and the family, God’s Blessings, Phil Roulston
Praying for the Heese family Terry was a wonderful officer & was a great support when Wendy was called to Heaven
How well I remember the welcoming smile and hug when attending new Lynn Salvation Army. I’m sure Terri will be welcomed with open arms in the kingdom of god which he so faithfully served. I almost hear the words, ‘well done good and faithful servant, enter into your rest. Loving prayers for the family at this time. Maria
It was 1980 when we first met Terry (and the family). We had been appointed to the Stratford Corps for 4 months under the guidance of Terry and Glenys who had been appointed as the new officers at New Plymouth. It was our out training as second year Cadets, so we were glad about two things. The first was that they looked after us really well, and the second was that they were far enough away that we could make mistakes without them looking over our shoulders all the time. For all that, we appreciated their leadership, advice and spirituality, which we have built on over the years. John had an odd saying at that stage of his life - "Oh my conscience". John didn't think Terry thought he had one, because for quite a while any time Terry saw John, he'd tilt his head back and say (in a rather loud voice) - "Oh my conscience"! Well Terry, John says, I haven't used that saying for many years, but we remember you with fondness, and look forward to the day when we renew our friendship in Heaven. Glenys and family, we extend to you all our love and prayers as you face the future without Terry, knowing that God has you in the centre of His care. Bless you all. Cadets.
Terry helped me to gain residence at the Bell Block community units. He introduced himself to my dad, who was unwell, to let dad know who was looking after me. I will always cherish this memory.
Oh, wonderful, effervescent Terry! The imprint of your friendship is indelible. The aura of your enthusiasm is incredible. The vigor of your valiancy is inexhaustible. The impact of your faith is unforgettable. I hear you saying, "Courage, my dears! Be brave, my beauties! Carry on beneath the Banner of Love!" And so I shall, forever deeply thankful that you chose to use your sojourn here to help prepare us for Over There!
Dear Glenys and family, my thoughts are with you all at such a sad time. It was always so lovely and special to see you both walk pass my home in JS holding hands and having little Annie in toe. Sending big hugs and my deepest sympathy. Jean Hastie
Words fail us as we learnt of Terry's passing, our hearts and prayers reach out to Glenys and the family in this time of grief and loss. The world has lost a man of great compassion, now in the arms of His Saviour. Rest in peace Terry. With all our love, Rob and Phillipa

Funeral service held at Eagars Te Henui Chapel

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