Also known as "Ann Marie"
16 November 1955 – 1 April 2025
Also known as "Ann Marie"
16 November 1955 – 1 April 2025
WARMAN Ann Marie Patricia (nee Ellison) passed away peacefully April 1. Wife of John, mother to Shane, Natasha, Michaela, Nathan and the late Benjamin, grandmother (Annie) to AJ, Theo, Finn and Mac and mother-in-law to Alec and Deborah.
Our grateful thanks to all the medical staff of Auckland Hospital for their kind-heartedness, care, and dedication for Ann Marie in her challenging medical journey.
A celebration of her life will be held 2.30pm Saturday April 12th at The North Harbour Chapel of Dil's Funeral Services Ltd, 185 Schnapper Rock Rd, Albany. A live stream of the service will be available at https://share.funeral.stream/fsjNj Tributes to Ann Marie may also be made here.

Funeral service held at Dil's Funeral Services
Sincere sympathy to you John and family . A huge loss. I remember Anne Marie as a friendly vivacious, bright and effervescent personality who brought laughter and joy to all in her company. She will be sadly missed.
Sincerest condolences to the family. We have fond memories of Anne Marie when she lived next door to us at Gails Drive. We remember the baking, the coffee, friendly and warm chats. Anne Marie had a great laugh and made everyone feel welcome. And was a wonderful friend to our late Mum Shirley.
Dear John and family: We grieve with you over the loss of Ann Marie. It was a delight to spend time with the two of you and Nathan when we were down under last year. Ann Marie was so vibrant and full of the joie d’ vivre, irrespective of any other challenges. Ann Marie will be greatly missed. A party to honour her memory is a great way to go. We’ll join you in a toast to her life.
Our sincere condolences to John, Shane, Natasha, Michaela and Nathan. I was stunned and saddened to hear of Ann Marie's passing, perhaps unreasonably so given that I've only seen her a couple of times in the last 30 years. In my memory she will remain strong and vibrant, fun-loving and generous. Her quick witted humour and good nature would invigorate any circle, and she always took care to make herself and her home welcoming and beautiful. Ann Marie had a gift of making the person she was with feel important and appreciated. As a teenager I think I held my head a little higher after even a short conversation with her. She had a great memory for people and details and was interested in everyone. Before I left for the US at age 21 Ann Marie took me op shopping (clearly noting though kindly not vocalising that my wardrobe was in dire need of an overhaul) which was such a thoughtful and much appreciated gift of her time. John, you and Ann Marie have unselfishly given of yourselves to those around you over your lifetime together, and I'm very grateful to have known you both. Much love, Joanne
Our deepest condolences to the Warman family on the passing of Ann Marie - a lovely lady. We will remember your great smile and infectious laugh. You are all very much in our thoughts. The Metcalfs
As a family you have all been a very special family to me. Anne Marie was the most amazing person, always so incredibly positive, so full of vitality & fun. She loved her cars, Jack always enjoyed talking cars with her. Tess, Grant's second daughter started walking at your place. Many wonderful memories enjoying her company. John & your family are going to miss you enormously. I send love, hugs & comfort to you all at this time & a special comfort hug to John. Judith
Dear John and family, We were so sorry to hear the sad news of Ann Marie's passing. She was a very special lady, a genuine and unforgettable character. Her loss will leave such an enormous gap in your lives. We're really sorry we can't be at the funeral because of a prior engagement, but our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Love from Rex and Marilyn
Charlotte and I were extremely sad and upset to get the message from John to let us know that Anne Marie had passed away. Anne Marie and the Warman family were a huge part of my younger years after meeting them when I went to my first party at Shane's house. The friendship has remained since then. As many have noted, Anne Marie was the life of the party, was so much fun to be around, had a sharp wit, and her door was always open. After first meeting her, I quickly found out that she was very "inquisitive" and would immediately like to know every detail about anyone that was at the house (due to Shane's legendary parties). I knew that sitting next to her would come with endless taps and prods to the shoulder, accompanied by "Ohh, who's that? What school does he go to? Who are his parents? What street does he live on? Which house?...". There was always a chance of light bruising due to the constant taps, but the promise of quick wit and many laughs always outweighed that risk. Two (of the many) memories I have of Anne Marie, are from when Anne Marie, John, Shane, and Deborah kindly flew halfway around the world to attend our wedding. I recall going to visit them at their hotel, and she knew the porter staff by name and they also knew "Mr John" and "Mrs Anne Marie" by name. While I wasn't surprised, the staff said to me "most guests don't even look at us". Anne Marie was genuine and friendly to everyone, no matter their perceived "status". Heading off to sleep on the night of my wedding celebration, after most of the guests had left and the hotel bar had all but emptied out, I walked past the hotel band and there was Anne Marie, up on the stage with them, dancing and singing along, still seemingly operating at 100% power. The life of the party, with so much energy and love of life. You are truly missed, Anne Marie and I am so fortunate to have had you as part of my life.
Ann Marie, From the moment we first met you 25 years ago we had no idea that you would hold such a special place in our families' hearts. Your humor and sharp wit will be missed and will dearly miss your gentle jabs in the shoulders when you were explaining things and that little laugh you made when i was teasing you about shopping at the warehouse. (private joke between you and I) You were truly loved by your family and those around you, which is why you will be so dearly missed by us all.
Ann Marie , We are so sad to say farewell on this journey. You have gone too soon. You had so much planned we are sure. How valiantly you fought, but the obstacles were too great. We remember how cheerful and welcoming you were to us on our visits from Australia., giving us a bed to sleep and out to lunches. You Zareen and I sang songs one night at your home. And Breakfast with you at Brown’s Bay. We also had fun times when you came to visit Stella and when you came with Laures and we went to listen to Country Music . We will think of you , Fun loving , Always ready for a laugh, Out spoken , Strong minded Generous , Loving and Supportive of John and your children . Knowing and Bonding with your grandsons AJ. Theo Finn and Mac was a treasured part of your life. You were Courageous with other set-backs in your life , but particularly in your last battle to survive. With Love We will remember you..
John and family, our deepest condolences for your loss. Ann Marie was always the cheer and joy in any group. May happy memories bring peace and comfort in the days ahead. In our thoughts and prayers.
We were so saddened to hear of Ann Marie's short illness and passing. The world feels a little less fun and caring without her in it. I will always remember her for her sense of humour (even when things probably shouldn't have been funny), and her genuinely caring nature to all her friends and family. So generous with her time, she would drop anything to help in any way she could. Growing up she was like my second Mum as I spent so much time with Shane on the farm, and she had a significant and positive impact on my life - my life was definitely better for having her in it! Our heartfelt condolences to the whole family. She will be missed by all of us but always remembered.
So sorry for your loss and sending our love and condolences
Shane, Natasha, Michaela, Nathan and Deb, we are so sad for you all. Peta and Greg x
Hearing of Ann Marie’s passing is truly saddening. I knew her through AJ and Theo, and she was a remarkable woman. Sharing babysitting duties with her was always a pleasure. Her stories of her own children’s childhood and their traditions in New Zealand were always a delight. I'll remember her for her confidence, her joy, and the incredible love she had for her grandchildren. Rest peacefully, dear Ann Marie. With deepest sympathy, Ildiko (Kiko) from London
To John and Ann Marie’s family. I was very shocked and saddened to hear of Ann Marie’s passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this time. Ann Marie was one special lady. Always beautifully presented, with a smile or a laugh, always caring, and with her quick wit and confidence great to be around. She will be so missed. With love and sympathy to you all. Judi Green (I hope to watch the livestream on Saturday.)
Ann Marie, I am beyond devastated to have to say goodbye to you. I will be forever grateful for the time we had at Pukehina not long ago, I can still feel your hugs as we said goodbye and I can see you as I waved you and Tash off, not knowing it would be the last time. You were my Auckland mum, my home away from home and I will miss you dearly. You will forever be in my heart. All my love Tash P
Hi Ann Marie, I'm so guttered that you have to go. I've always enjoyed your morning calls and cannot believe the phone will not ring around 11 when you've finished your work. I want to thank you for all you're advice over the past few years and always comming to my house when I needed help. I could say thankyou for so many things and so could Frank. When he was in hospital the first time he wrote to me as he thought he was going to die he wrote GO TO ANN MARIE. So thankyou doesn't seem enough for what you did for us. I have always loved poetry and I think this was written for someone like you. I CARRY YOUR HEART, I CARRY IT WITH ME, I CARRY IT IN MY HEART..
Our beautiful and authentic Anne-Marie, there will never be another character like you. Our family were so incredibly sad to hear of your passing , you truly made an impression on all of us the last 30 years or so. We always knew you as life of any party, as you’d walk in usually late, bangles dangling, with Himself (John) smiling admirably beside you. The memories of a girls weekend away, the time at a bar when you asked and took your spoon to sample the dessert of the lady sitting opposite us, our sailing trip in the Whitsundays when you were chatting away , next minute a huge wave covered you but you still continued chatting. Most of all you will be remembered for your fun, and kindness, and utter love for your John aka Himself, your kids and your grandsons. Never ever was there a dull moment surrounding you. You will be missed until we meet again. X
My condolences to the Warman family. I was so sad to hear of Anne-Marie´s passing we have known each other for over 40 years having being involved in netball and tennis together. I will always remember her to be beautifully dressed with a heart of gold. Lots of love Margaret Atkin
Ann Marie, to say we are devastated doesn't come close. You were a great mate to Stephen, an Aunty to Scott and Stacey and a sister to me. I knew you would be there for me no matter what . I loved your energy and love of life. I'm going to miss you my friend and hope there's music playing wherever you are. No goodbyes, just see you later, We'll have lots of catching up to do. Love you my friend, and sister.
Shocked and saddened at Ann Marie´s passing. She was such a force of nature and always so full of life. Ann Marie loved her family so much and was always so proud of them and they always came first. My thoughts are with John and her children and other family.
We are saddened to hear of Ann's passing. I was in HDU opposite Ann and could see that she was a lovely person and well loved by her family. We waved and smiled at each other whenever I walked past. Sending our condolences to you all. Sangita & Rohit Ranchhod.
I was sad to hear from Shane of your passing. On thinking back over our teenage years at the farm I really can't believe how accommodating you and John were of us all always being at your place and the mischief we use to get up to. Those bonfires at the cottage....and then that party you had for Shane's 21st. Memories of you are your laugh, you always welcoming all of us at the farm and in recent years hearing from Renee every time she saw you in Milford Shopping mall. Go well Ann Marie, be at peace now.
Ann Marie, you’ve been a cherished friend for 35 years, ever since our daughters Michaela and Whitney became inseparable at the age of two. Your confidence, sense of humour, kindness and generosity never knew bounds. Over the years you have dropped everything to be there for us when we needed you and we’ll remember that kindness forever. With a heart of gold, you touched the lives of everyone lucky enough to know you. We will miss you deeply, but we will always hold you close in our hearts, love always the Young family xxx
John and family. Margaret and I extend our sincere condolences on the passing of Ann Marie.
Dear John and family I was so upset to hear this news I always thought of AnneMaree often, after leaving Northcross Pharmacy as she was a true character and we loved having her in store! An amazing woman, always so bubbly and beautiful Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time Tania and Andrew Churches
So saddened to read of your passing... We haven't crossed paths for many years but only seems like yesterday our fun shopping expeditions, lunches with a wine or two and plenty of laughs with you wicked sense of humor! Sincere condolences to John and all the family. John and Desley xx
We have known Ann Marie for nearly 45 years, since she lived in Gails Drive Okura. What a lady! Always a wave and smile from her. And since she shifted to their lovely place in rural Okura we always knew there was a welcome when we would pop up there. Our hearts are very sad now. We will do whatever we can to support John and their family.
Ann Marie - you were the most supportive mother in law I could have asked for. Right from the first moment I met you, you were welcoming and loving. Your kindness, patience (especially as I learned to be a mother!) and the fun you bought to my life I will always treasure. You shared your knowledge and you experience generously and sensitively, and I felt wrapped in your absolute love for your family. The time (months even) we spent together when each of my children arrived was so special to me - from coming with me to the vaccinations and holding the babies for hours after, getting me out of the house and evenings watching Call The Midwife together. Easily stepping in with care and your signature quick wit - your words could make the kids (and me!) stop and fall about laughing. I could always ask you about anything or share a worry and you would have the answer or an idea where to find it. The children will have such wonderful memories of a life well lived. I will miss your love, your voice, the jingle of your bracelets, the shopping updates, the constant stream of news from home and so much more. I wish so much we had more time, I really needed more time with you but I am also incredibly grateful for the time I had and for the peace you now have. Love Deborah

Funeral service held at Dil's Funeral Services

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