Mary's family, I am so sorry for the loss of you mum, nana, friend, Mary was a wonderful lady who had a heart of gold, she was a staunch advocate for the people and things she believed in. Her courage and determination to battle this terrible disease had been going for a very very long time as sad as it is to have lost her, I am also so very proud of her kaha (strength) in her, she was truly someone I admired for this. Mary and I met at nursing school and quickly became friends, I love her passion for her family she spoke with absolute love when she would share stories of the achievements of her children and the arrival of her grand children. She would share stories and photos of their latest endeavors. the love she had for Gramme and sometimes the not so loving moments she shared (that we all have when you have been married for as long as they had been) She had given me such good advice over the years for my own marriage I am truly grateful. I always remember her telling me about having her after wedding celebrations at the casa Pequena in Stratford, every time I stop there I think of them both. I will miss her at WOMAD she LOVED going to it very year and I loved seeing her and hanging out. She was such a wonder lady in many ways. I will truly miss her, but I feel truly blessed to have known her. Her light will live on in you all, and I will carry a little bit of that with me. Arohanui to you all Dawn

We met Mary soon after we moved to New Plymouth. She was such a support to our family. Mary and my husband traveled the same journey with their initial cancer operation and so she was always an inspiration to us. She gave me (Jo, the supporter) such encouragement when we walked the beach. She will be greatly missed.

I only met Mary for a few short months on a few weekly walks and over a couple of coffees at the Tea House where we all meet after our walk around Pukekura Park, before she got too ill to continue. Our paths didn't cross for long but she was such a force of kindness, making new people feel welcome and spreading her joy of life and genuine interest in others well being. I wanted to say how sad I was at this huge loss to your family and we will miss Mary at our weekly walks and over coffee. She will be missed quietly by myself and a few other cancer thrivers and support people who I am sure also send our sympathies and condolences to the family.

So sad to read of the passing of lovely Mary, your Mum, Nana and mother in law. Colin and I had a great time with Mary at Summerset whilst visiting Graeme and Dot. A very brave lady who will always be loved and well remembered. Thinking of you all. Regards Colin McComb & Denise Novak

Mary was so kind and caring, she had the strength to say what needed to be said and it was a privilege to work with her. My condolences to her whanau, I know she loved you all deeply as she spoke of you often

It was a real privilege being part of Mary’s care. She was a sensitive selfless women who was strong to the end I enjoyed our chats and banter and loved her sense of humour . Mary was a beautiful women inside and out and loved her family and the way she was cared for by her family showed that love was reciprocated Paul Liz and Mel and all you whanau you were amazing in your love and care for Mary. Rest in peace now Mary sending much Aroha to you and your whanau xxx

To Mary's whanau. So sorry to hear of Mary:s passing, sending love and thoughts to you all at this time.

To Liz and Whanau- Mary was such a beautiful and caring woman. It was a privilege to work along side mum . My deepest condolences. Love and hugs Nicky askew Xox

Truly a lovely lady, Mary & Graeme I will always remember both off you with fondness and smiles, They both truly loved their children and Grandies

Sincere Condolences from Doctor Samir Heble. He remembers Mary as a caring and kind person to all her patients & she went the extra mile for them as well. Written by Mary’s friend Erice who advised him of her death.

To Mary’s family,my condolences to you all on the passing of your mother. I worked with Mary for a number of years during her nursing career.Thinking of you all at this time. Sharon Wills

Mary was a wonderful lady, who was able to cross generations and engage with all. I always enjoyed catching up with her. She was also A+ in the nana stakes; I’ll always remember her for her magic bag of food, lollies and toys to keep kids fed and entertained. I feel grateful to have gotten to know Mary as an adult and only hope she is at peace on the other side of the rainbow. All of my love to her family, whom I know gave her such amazing care and support in her final months. You guys are wonderful humans xxx

To the family and friends of Mary. We are so sorry for your loss. It was a true privilege to have time with Mary and her ability to share her story and experience. We are deeply grateful for how she was able to shed light for others to attend services whilst attending cancer treatment. Her stories and time will have made a difference to others. We loved always her beautiful positivity and that smile was contagious. Mary truly made connections with others. From all the team we send our aroha and care to Mary's family. Rest peacefully now . Look Good Feel Better NZ.