Goodbye uncle Ray. Thanks for the memories and helping me to enjoy motorbikes with Dad. Love you Joan and family.

Uncle Ray .. so many memories, so many moments, all with love, and humor. I was so lucky to have such a awesome human being in my life from day one. You taught me lessons , like do not jump off a boat until it is shallow water, and other more important ones. Your love, kindness, caring and giving heart was second to none. Always there with solid advise. A very talented and clever man who had very little book learning but could dream up ideas and put them to use like no one could. You were one of a kind, the very best kind. You helped shape who I am today, that special Uncle that could move mountains and put a smile on your face, turn negatives into lessons and lessons into life skills. I hope your brothers greeted you with a cup of tea, 2 spoons and 2 grains of sugar a must. Aunty Joan you are a saint you gave Uncle Ray the best life he could have had, you took care of him when he needed it, you were his advocate , his love and his best friend . Thank you seems inadequate but I do appreciate both of you so very much. Julie and the gang in USA

Dear Ray (and Joan), Even though we left Kaikoura with our family years ago, we often think back to our time in 'Kaiks and the people who made it a special chapter in our lives. Some people have a way of lighting up every room they walk into — and you were one of them. Always ready with a cheeky comment and that unmistakable twinkle in your eye, you (especially in combination with Joan) could turn any ordinary moment into one filled with laughter. We will forever treasure these memories. Our hearts go out to the family and friends you leave behind, our sincere condolences. Love; Mieke, Caroline, Juno and Harlow

As we say goodbye to you today remember we will always think of you and talk about u often We will look after aunty Joan and Darren and Frazier will continue to love guide and comfort Suzanne and Karen . Love u with all my heart x