Pamela Jean Steenstra

Also known as "Pam/Polly"

6 February 19628 August 2025

STEENSTRA, Pamela Jean “Pam/Polly” (nee Crafar): Peacefully after a long illness on 8 August 2025, at New Vista Rest Home Whanganui, aged 63 years. Much loved Wife of Dom. Loved mum of Sarah and Steven Trebble. Loved grandma of Nate. Cherished daughter of Pat and the late Tony Crafar. Loved sister of Grant and Julie Crafar, and loved aunt of Jayden and Ange, Ethan, and Lachie. Treasured Nanny P to Chris, Bex, Keryn, Chase, Lucy, Will, and James. A service for Pam will be held at St. Brigid’s Catholic Church, 4 Monmouth Street, Feilding on Wednesday 13 August 2025 at 11am. 

Funeral service held at St Brigid's Catholic Church, Feilding

Tributes

Pam was a truly special lady — gentle, kind, and always with a twinkle in her eye that brightened the day of everyone around her. She was never a bother to anyone, always gracious and appreciative, and she carried herself with a quiet warmth that made her presence so comforting. Pam will be deeply missed, not just for her gentle spirit, but for the joy she brought into our lives in those everyday moments. On behalf of myself and all the team at New Vista, our hearts go out to her dear mum Pat, her husband Dom, and all of her family. May you find comfort in knowing that Pam touched so many hearts and will be remembered with love and fondness always.

Cathy Low
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